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I just wanted to see what you do about car seats for your kids. You mentioned that Zoe can’t unbuckle her car seat, so I’m assuming that means she’s still in a harnessed seat, which is great!
I know that a lot of people use the same car seat for all their kids or buy one second hand to be more frugal, but that’s not safe. Most car seats expire after 6 years or so and will no longer be effective in a crash. And if you buy second hand you never know if the seat has been in an accident or misused.
So, I was wondering what you did/do about obtaining car seats without blowing your budget (they can be very expensive!).
-Rebecca
Yep, Zoe AND Sonia are both still in 5-point harness seats. Joshua and Lisey were both in booster seats by this age, but neither of my two younger girls have gotten heavy enough or tall enough to be promoted.
It’s kind of a bummer because I thought I’d be done with car seats by this point, but given my girls’ small sizes, I really do feel like they’re safer in their car seats than in booster seats.
Safety should be your first concern when you’re shopping for a car seat, and saving money should be a somewhat distant second.
In case not everyone is aware, car seats do expire at a certain point because the straps can no longer be trusted.
In case you’re skeptical, here’s a video showing how poorly an expired car seat works in a crash. (email subscribers, you’ll have to click on over to my actual blog to see this…my apologies!)
Because of this, buying a used car seat is a somewhat risky proposition unless you can know for sure that the seat is not expired and has not previously been in a crash.
If you decide to buy used, check for an expiration date. Car seats should have a sticker with an expiration date on them somewhere, and if there’s no sticker, I wouldn’t recommend using the seat. Also, I would only recommend buying a used car seat from someone who can honestly assure you that the seat has not been in an accident (like someone you know personally, not a random stranger on Craig’s List).
If you decide to buy new, don’t feel like you need to buy a designer car seat with cup holders and extraneous fancy features…something more basic will work just fine because all car seats have to meet safety regulations.
Also, if you’re planning to have multiple children use the seat before it expires, I definitely recommend purchasing a seat with neutral colors (Incidentally, what is up with all the gender-specific baby gear out there? Will you really want to use your pastel pink stroller if your next baby is a boy??).
Once you’ve chosen the seat you want, check around on the internet to see which retailer has the best price. Target was the most inexpensive (around $100) when we checked, so that’s where we bought Sonia’s and Zoe’s seats.
I have a question for you about bread baking…well the kneading in particular. When you show pictures of turning out the dough before you start kneading, it always looks so thin. Whenever mine is at that stage and I turn it out (on a WELL floured board) it is still so sticky that I can’t do anything with it besides scrape it off the board into the trash (which breaks my heart & wallet). Any tips on what I’m missing here?
-Kate
I use a dough scraper just like this one(that’s an affiliate link to my online Amazon store) to help me with the early stages of kneading. You can see a photo of that in my post about how to knead bread dough , but if you’re a super beginner at bread baking, you might want to make your dough a little bit thicker before turning it out to knead.
Also, if you’ve got a stand mixer, I highly recommend using it to give the dough a good initial mixing…this helps the dough to be a little more organized by the time you turn it out onto the counter.
If your dough is too sticky, working some more flour into it should fix the problem and that way you won’t have to waste the batch of dough.
The new camera body I bought does actually take video, so one of these days I want to do a vlog about how to knead bread…I just need to do it when Mr. FG is around to be the camera man (my camera is too heavy for our cheapie tripod and I do NOT want to risk it falling onto the wood floor!).
I have a couple of yeast sweet roll recipes that I’d love to try for a holiday morning but I know I will not have the time that morning to prepare them from the beginning of the recipe. Do you know/think that I can make them ahead of time and let them rise overnight like the overnight cinnamon twists/rolls or do I need to make some sort of slight change in the recipe to be able to do that.
-Jen S.
As far as I know, almost any recipe will work that way…I’ve tried it with a number of recipes that weren’t specifically designed for an overnight rise, and the results have been good.
Of course, if you want to make sure that this will work, you could always suffer through an experimental batch one Saturday morning before Christmas. You know, for the happy-holiday-eating cause. 😉
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Gina K Campbell
Tuesday 9th of November 2010
I have always totally agreed on the whole gender-neutral baby gear and therefore have ugly brown & black carseats, etc. And now here I am 3 girls later wishing I would have bought something cuter! Oh well...I was trying to be smart! :)
Kim
Tuesday 9th of November 2010
What should you do with your old, expired, used car seats? Just throw them in the trash? Seems so wasteful to me - not to mention that they're made of non-biodegradable materials.
Also, if you ever get in a wreck when a child is in the seat , you should buy a new car seat, regardless if it "looks okay" or not. Your auto insurance company may also have a provision to reimburse you for the cost of a new seat. Ours did (Allstate) and it paid for a new one a couple of years ago when we had an accident. $100+ for a new seat is no fun when you've already got to shell out for your deductible.
Rebecca
Tuesday 9th of November 2010
Many local car seat technicians love to get crashed seats to use as demos when they teach classes, and like Kristen said, many cities have recycling programs now.
I was told that if an insurance company doesn't want to pay for a replacement seat, even after you've sent them a copy of the manufacturers requirement, then it is usually effective to ask for a signed and notarized statement on company letterhead that they accept all responsibility for injury, rehabilitation, damages or death caused by an unsafe car seat. I've never heard of them denying anyone after that.
Kristen
Tuesday 9th of November 2010
My area can now recycle them, but back when I got rid of my expired ones, there was no such program in place.
Someone ran into my car when Joshua was a baby (my car was totalled but he and I were both safe), and in that case, the insurance company took the old seat and paid for a new one. They cut the straps of the old one so no one could use it, and I have no idea how they disposed of it.
Fudgie
Monday 8th of November 2010
Great information. Thanks. I found the best deal on car seats at K-mart. They were $10 cheaper than Walmart on sale. If you butter your spatula you can get anything off I found. I made crispy treats that way before too. Do you find it is cheaper to make everything from scratch or buy it on sale?
Kristen
Tuesday 9th of November 2010
That all depends...there's no hard and fast rule on that, but from-scratch stuff usually tastes better and is better healthwise, so I err on the side of cooking from scratch or almost-scratch.
Rebecca
Monday 8th of November 2010
One important thing to note about car seats is that what seat to use and how to use it is really more about height and weight, than age. Though maturity does play a part.
My 5 year old is in a backless booster, he has been for over 6 months now, but he knows to sit up straight and not play with the belt. He is over 4 ft 7 in and over 65 lbs.
Lili
Thursday 30th of December 2010
Here in Washington State, the law says kids have to be in a booster till they're 8 years old or 4 foot 9. My son is 9.5 years old but still 4 foot 7, so we make him stay in the booster seat. Age should have nothing to do with it, so I don't know why that part is in the law! Luckily, part of the good of being a homeschooler is that he doesn't have to do a lot of carpooling or riding with other kids to field trips or whatever---so there is no one to tease him about still using a booster seat. Yes, he'd love to be out of the booster, but he understands the law is geared toward keeping kids high enough to use the regular seat belt and he's just not there yet.
Rebecca
Monday 8th of November 2010
Oh also, there are certified car seat technicians to check the installation of your seats and teach you to do it properly yourself. The vast majority of carseats are misused, which makes them less effective in a crash.
It's probably also helpful to know that police officers and firefighters are NOT certified technicians. They have not been trained and do not know the specifics of each seat, so they aren't really qualified to install seats. Some stations DO have a tech though, but most do not.