Today I was working on The Money Email, which is a missive I prepare at the beginning of each month(I’m working on September’s a bit early). Its sole recipient is my husband, and its purpose is to keep him up-to-date and informed about the state of our finances. I used to be terrible about keeping him in the loop, and then I would dread money discussions. Now I email him at least once a month, and usually twice(once each paycheck). The mental, relational, and financial benefits to this have been numerous, and I am so much happier this way.
Anyways, I am thrilled to pieces with where we are financially at the moment(thank you, God!). I’m sure to people who are used to having more play in their cash flow, our situation would look relatively grim, but for us, it’s positively fabulous.
Here are some wonderful things about September for us:
1) We’re going on vacation in September(woohoo for beach vacations at half price!), and not only is the condo all paid up, but we have $300 saved up to spend on gas. Hopefully gas prices will keep dropping, and we won’t have to spend the whole $300 on gas. Plus, God willing, we’re going to keep saving up $100 a month all year, so next year we’ll have money for more than just gas.
2)We actually have a small emergency savings account. It only has $1007 in it right now, but it’s a start.
3)We have $380 saved up for Christmas so far. I am so thrilled about this. Usually we don’t manage to save up anything ahead of time, and then we have to somehow find the money for Christmas purchases in December. This year, we’ve been saving $40 a month, and that should cover a good portion of the gifts we need to buy.
4)I’m back to teaching my full load of piano students in September, which means my income will be at a much more manageable level(it gets pretty low in the summer.). This year, I’m hoping to save some of my piano income to use next summer, so that the drop in income won’t be so difficult.
5) We get a $170 credit on our electric bill this month, due a settlement that took place. It doesn’t make up for the 70% increase in energy costs(!), but I’ll certainly take it!
6)This month, my husband gets an extra paycheck. He gets paid bi-weekly, so every six months, he gets three paychecks instead of two. Since we don’t really plan these checks into our budget, they’re sort of like a bonus when we get them.
7)We actually spent less than we made this month(usually we just break even!), and that’s not counting the extra paycheck. In fact, even after saving for Christmas and vacation, we will have almost $600 leftover from our regular income, which is quite unheard of.
And, all of this is on top of us having no debt besides our mortgage. Our cars are paid for, our credit cards have no balances, and our HELOC is sitting happily at $0(may it stay that way!!). So, we’ve been blessed, and I’m happy today.
photo by Mike Baird
Kristen
Thursday 28th of August 2008
I'm hope the email idea works out well for you, Lori. Email is a wonderful way for me to communicate with Steve on lots of topics...I just seem to think better when I write out my thoughts.
In my experience, lots of small money talks are WAY better than big money talks that happen once in a blue moon.
Lori
Wednesday 27th of August 2008
That's awesome. And, you have no idea how much I love the idea of The Money E-mail. I'm the same way about keeping Sean out of the loop, and he gets super-emotional and stressed about money (which is why I keep him out of loop, which makes it more stressful and emotional when we *do* have to talk about money...), so I may have to implement this as a nice, neutral way to keep him informed about what's going on.
Way to go!
meg
Wednesday 27th of August 2008
Oh, that is definitely worthy of celebration! It's very easy to let a lot of things, like the Christmas fund, slide until you're desperately scraping the money together in November. And I'm a big fan of the "extra" paycheck months, too! It *is* like a bonus, isn't it? :) Good for you!
Lou
Wednesday 27th of August 2008
Nice going - you can see the impact of all those small, frugal choices and we get to see them, too. It's not easy for anyone to resist the lures our ad culture surrounds us with. You are proof that it can be done, with grace and joy. And you have the courage to share your journey so that others can see that a life lived with commitment and candor is not drab, but joyous. Thanks for sharing!
Kristen
Wednesday 27th of August 2008
Awww, thanks for rejoicing with me. :) The comparison between now and this time last year is really quite striking, in a very happy way!